Single ladies, today I want to talk to you! (All the single ladies! All the single ladies! 👋👋) I am also a single lady as well, and I want to talk to those of you who are dating. I think that this is a beautiful time in our lives. Where we are meeting new people and getting to know others. And even through that time, getting to know ourselves on a deeper level.
But somethings that I want to address with you ladies is about how we can lead men on. Now, we women love the attention of men. And that is a totally normal thing to experience. God created us as these captivating creatures, and to draw attention to the incredible beauty within us. It is normal to want to feel desired and to want to be seen.
However, I want to address one thing, let us remember on the other side is our brother in Christ. Let us not use them to gain self confidence, feelings of worth or longing for someone to talk too. I felt that it was very important for me to address this because we live in a society that tells us it is okay to use the other person for gratification. But we have to remember that this person wasn't placed in your life to fulfill your desires.
My dearest sisters in Christ, I want to ask you to remember that your worth doesn't come from the guy who is messaging you. Your worth doesn't come from how he might make you feel. Your worth doesn't come from the attention you receive from the opposite sex. Your worth is defined in who you are as a daughter of God.
Let us remember that we also have to uphold our Brother in Christ, and to see their dignity and value! Let us not live in a culture of use, but be countercultural! Live lives based on love, mutual respect and dignity.